Wisdom in the wound

How God Uses Your Past to Shape Who You’re Becoming


By Tony Miltenberger

If you’ve ever wrestled with pain, disappointment, or failure and wondered if anything good could come from it—Wisdom in the Wound is for you. In this powerful and personal book, Tony Miltenberger invites readers to rethink their wounds not as setbacks, but as sacred starting points for transformation. Blending real-life stories, biblical insight, and practical reflection, Wisdom in the Wound offers a fresh, hope-filled lens on emotional healing and leadership. It’s an ideal read for anyone seeking clarity, courage, and deeper purpose—whether you're lounging by the pool or navigating life’s tougher waters.

Wisdom in the Wound is a practical, honest, and needed conversation to grow in ways I didn’t think possible. It’s great for individuals, but with the exercises at the end of each chapter, I think it will be an invaluable in communities of people desiring more freedom in their lives.

— Kathryn Maack, Visionary, Dwellings Ministry



Wisdom in the wound is a call to face your pain with grace and come out stronger on the other side. It shows how God can turn your deepest wounds into your greatest strengths.

— Joël Malm, Author and Founder of Summit Leaders



About

Tony

Tony Miltenberger is the founder of Follow2Lead Coaching. He is a veteran, podcast host, executive coach, author, and the associate pastor of disciple making at Centerville Grace Church. Throughout the years, Tony has traveled the globe taking deployments in Kuwait, El Salvador, and numerous marriage retreats throughout the US. He has consulted with churches in the deep south and multi-million dollar organizations in the Midwest.

He has done hundreds of hours of pastoral counseling and executive coaching. Each conversation helps people uncover their true potential by taking a deep look at their past as well as their hopes for the future. He is genuinely curious and passionate about pursuing the mission of making disciples who make disciples.

His proudest accomplishment is being the father to three amazing kids and being married to his high school sweetheart (Karen) for over 20 years.